Welcome! I'll answer what questions I can...
1) rhapsody does do music, but just music. Make sure to install the drivers for your phone BEFORE plugging your phone in: XP/Vista doesn't have the capabilities of recognizing it otherwise. As for your iPod, that's odd. I didn't think it would recognize it. Cool.
2) You can play with the calibration of your phone. There are tutorials of people figuring out the best way to do it on the site. As for my advice, you'll get used to it in time and find what works best for you. Experiment until you get it to your liking.
3) I don't know what's good, but most BT's work just fine. If people complain about the quality or you can't heard them, you can get a better one.
4) I haven't heard of DataPilot. Does it work with the dare?
Bitpim works fairly well, though it is limited. I haven't heard of any other program able to sync with the Dare. You're probably limited to Bitpim.
5) Zedge is my favorite site to use. It has all the things I would want and more, and is very easy to use.
www.myxer.com is supposed to be another good one.
Enjoy, and welcome!
Thanks for the help. I love the Zedge site - I signed up and it's a great resource.
Also, I am getting used to the scrolling - thanks for the help with that too.
I was wondering and this probably has been answered - but I'm watching the kids and don't have much time to search... but,
1. Can I buy a different USB cable - other than verizon's to charge my phone? I want one for the computer and one to use in another room.
2. Any opinions on the extra storage battery - I think it holds a bigger charge.
3. I don't think there's a "stand" for the Dare, but if there is I'd like one. I use my Dare as an alarm clock next to my bed - showing the big clock while it's charging & it would be nice to have it standing.
4. I saw someone posted, but it wasn't answered about assigning a seperate ringtone for Mobile Mail - I just started using that last night and I don't think it is possible. And by the way, the notification of new mail is very slow or doesn't always work in my opinion.
Just some quick thoughts & comments.
Paul